Hallo my fellow bloggers,
I’m just sitting here and sipping on some good ole H2O scanning the internet. Yes, I am at work bored out of my mind and not in the mood to chase other people’s kids 😦
So, I have been coming across alot of relationship advocates and the same question keeps popping up. Is it ok for your better half to have a best friend of the opposite sex ?
Now me and hubby had a very small debate about this. I say small because we both agreed there is no such thing. We feel at some point feelings were there or is there from one or the other (Somebody likes somebody). Or at some point in time that best friend was your old sex partner or still is; and/or had sex once before. And the list goes on. See, to us its to many complications in that best friend role. That means I am able to call you in the middle of the night if i needed help, right? So it would be very uncomfortable if it was someone from the opposite sex unless you are a family member. Even though in some states and families ain’t nothing wrong with that kind of life 😦 …… We both are even a little iffy on the best friend being into the same sex (Meaning my male best friend has a boy friend or female best friend has a girl friend). But, we both have them; with very strict rules and regulations.
I was told at times that me and my hubby are too controlling or insecure. And I say to those people “To each their own”. Just because you think its ok to jump off a bridge that dont mean imma be stupid enough to follow you………… Ya Digg! If we really wanted extra best friends of the opposite sex we would get a dog. Me and my hubby is coming along just fine without the extras.
What do you all think?